So, advice…. I know I’m doing something wrong, but can’t figure out why, and how to get thinkgs back on track…

I’m going out with this chick from work (she works nights… and I work days, makes it easier…) It all started by inviting her out to a silly pottery class. While we are there she says she loves this stuff, and then the teacher says we need to mold the clay into something resembling a penis.

At that time, I tease the girl about liking pottery so much and about being a pervert…. She loves it.
Time goes by (like a month), we go out to dinner on the spot, and I tell her to just be ready at 8:30 PM, just don’t go naked (she loves the crack), and we go out…
An exhibition to a museum in between, where we get a little touchy touchy, and I get her into dancing with me at the exhibit.

Finally, a great invitation for a New Year’s Party and she starts getting closer and closer but does not go for the kiss, I used the technique but she didn’t budge.

So it all looked good, but it seems that now she’s beginning to “forget” to call, and keep up with plans. Said that it’s because she’s back at nights, and that she is training really hard at some rollerderby thing. since she comes with bruising and some, I tell her that complaining won’t her any massages and to lay off the abusive relationships. Laughs but still not quite budging…
What do I do to get her back on track? I have to be out of town for like 10 days so that gives me enough time to plan new things and give her the gift of missing me.

MB
Chicago