1. In your scenario your going to a coffee shop with a girl you meet the night before. Big mistake your already showing her you’re needy just like every other guy that hits on her and lowering her interest level. You gotta be patient and separate yourself from all the others.
2. You say assume your better than the girl. I would put this in another way and say don’t put any woman up on a pedestal but treat her with class and respect.
3. You mention when she trips you make some smart ass comment to her. You NEVER insult your date that’s disrespectful. I’m not saying you can’t tease her a little but you need to make sure you smile at her when your doing it so she knows you’re kidding her.
4. You say after a couple hours talking to … Another huge mistake. I like the fact that your doing a small first date but you shouldn’t be talking to her more than 45min. This is another big mistake guys make in the come on way to strong in the beginning. You need to spoon feed her yourself. The numero uno complaint of women is men come one two strong and pressure them.
5. You say normal conversation… being Cocky & Funny. You’re half right, I would say being confident and keeping the conversation light and funny. If your not confident, like my buddy says “Fake it til you make it, Brother”.