By: Tina

Tina — Wed, 21 Nov 2007 10:56:18 +0000

Hi David
So, I read your advert and your promises to the men.
At first, I agree with some of your statements, but disagree with the most of them. I am 49y.o. from Ukraine; and I always was attractive; even when 70% of my body was covered with psoriasis, the king”s- blooded man from Africa”s country on six years yanger than me,made me pregnant twice tried to incourage me to marry him. Even at this time, when I was very ill, I was wearing a modest but a beautiful dress, slightly put my make-up and nobody can resist my cheerfull smile and the smell and heat of my clean and sporty body. At this time I on my one rose two kids from my previous marriage and was working on highly secret project for scientist institution.He loved me and I loved him. I rejected his proposals because it was highly dangerous for me and my kids who are white to move to a colour community of this man. At this particular years his country was in the war.
Every time you are doing something- you need to be able to see the consequence of your actions- most man have no this abilities, therefore women are rejecting them.
The time is going and I am oldering. I am not as attractive as I was at my early years, but I still have the invitations from men quite often, sometimes a few a day if I am on the centre of the city.
I must to say- everything is in our mind. If the man is motivated-he will find the way to attract any woman,BUT what after this? What is he going to do with her-just sex or what? Every woman has relatives, friends,co-workers, people around her who are interested to improve or to make worth her life and usually it is difficult to recognise who is doing what. No one mother will intend to breack the relationship of her daughter but she will be very sure that she is doing the right things for her. Or your own friends to you- they are always giving adwice, but what is really in their minds-you never know, ans more- the result is not sometimes what you really wanted. What the final result will be- not difficult to emagine. And all effort you will put to get a beautiful woman and keep the relationship with her can be easily broken down by interruption of other people.
IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY for a LONG period of your life - DON”T LOOK FOR A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN-LOOK FOR A SMART ONE. Our beauty will be destroyed by years- does”t matter what we will do. My advice- study yourself, know what exactly you want in your life and just then, if you are absolutely sure you want the hussles to have a woman and her surrouders in your life, try getting and keeping IT. Why I am saying IT- because a woman like anything you have - like your home, like your boat or aimal- you have to look after it, care properly after it or othewise women will dump you. Getting woman-getting responsibilities. Do you really want it? Believe me. I am a woman. I still want to have love and happiness in my life but I did not meet a man who will love me as I want it. I must to say that most of the man are see a woman as something separated from the ouside life.
I shall say- so more educated woman- so more attractive she is, so more adaptive she is, so higher her expectations- not simply about money but all aspects of her life- the sex, social, finansial, soul, relationship and othe life. And sometimes a man jumping on a woman thinking that just by using the complex different techniques he can tidy her- it will not work. At first you need to compare yours IQ”s, what level of society she is,if she is smarter than you she will tolerate you for the time untill it will be convinient to her. And believe me-she will try to compensate her time spent with you. If you want a smart and at the same time attractive woman in your life-you need to put a lot of efort to satisfy her needs- these you need to study properly- it might be very different from what you think. You need to study very carefully what she is saying- and then clarify what she really wants. It probably not much, but you will be on a right road of your achievements. I did have a man in my life- I was 38y.o., he was 52y.o. I thought that he was too old for me, too fat. He was an impotent, but he made me extremely happy in a bed- you could not emagine what he knows and how he achieved it. He made me very happy in our social life too. He was an expert of making women happy.
Honestly, I would like to keep correspondence with you- simply because you are the man who tried to understand women. I really want to understand a men and find a proper one for myself.
Hope we can co-operate.I am sure that the course of incouraging, creating, keeping and improving the relationship has to be included in the education system of all countries- for some stupid reason people are too shy about it and as the result there are millions of broken lives around the world. Why don”t create the Institution of the Relationship? Why people are take ful mouth of water and keep quiet about the very important things in their lives, but very openly they are teaching everybody maths, chemistry, aerodinamics, etc., the topics which are nothing to do with our body, soul, comfort needs.
Tina
P.S. The are actually much more mistake men do- I am not talking about you. Honestly.

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