Comments on: Turning A Female Friend Into A Lover http://www.datingquestionsformen.com/turning-a-female-friend-into-a-lover How to attract and get the women you want. Thu, 28 Aug 2008 02:11:38 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3 By: ANARCHY-TV.COM http://www.datingquestionsformen.com/turning-a-female-friend-into-a-lover#comment-187 ANARCHY-TV.COM Tue, 22 Apr 2008 15:01:48 +0000 http://www.datingquestionsformen.com/turning-a-female-friend-into-a-lover#comment-187 You probably can't do this in person, so I suggest if you can't, writer her a note, saying all this I type below, in note form, and slip it to her where she finds it when you aren't around. Go up to her out of the blue one day (or start your note out this way) and say "FUCK YOU!". No, "FUCK YOU!". And she will be like, what, what's wrong, what did I do, what's the matter? Of course she will, she's your best friend. And then you tell her exactly how you feel. You say "HER_NAME, I really like you a lot, we have a blast ripping on each other, its great fun. But you hurt me. Haven't you noticed that ever since you told me you wouldn't have sex with me, I've been talking to you less? Well I have. You wounded me deeply. Somehow I now feel like I'm not worthy or something, like I'm not good enough for you, and it hurts like hell, because of all our joking, I actually cared about you. A lot. But you scare me now." "And another thing... and I'm not afraid to say it, in fact I'm kinda proud... I haven't ever had sex yet. I mean, I couldn't. Would would I do it with. I mean, that's something special, you only do with someone who is special to you. The only one I would ever even think of doing something like that with would be you. But my god, if we did that, it would be so electric, I'd be afraid it'd set my toes on fire. My heart my explode. I think about that some times, just kissing you on the couch in the dark, where we wouldn't be afraid, and I'm like oh wow that would be heaven. Just kissing. And then joking about it. And kissing some more." "If you have sex with someone else, it will tear my heart out. Every time I heard it, or saw his face, or you talked about it, my heart would bleed red. I can't be around you if you were to talk about someone else, I would die inside. And so I must distance myself so I never have to see. I'm strong, but you're like magic to me, like kryptonite. Are you brave enough for the both of us now, to find me, to love me, to just grab me, look me in the eye, and kiss the hell out of me? I promise I'll kiss back. You have my permission. This may be your last chance ever. For my heart can not take it anymore." "If you can't, I want you to know, I will never forget you. Ever. You were the best. But please do. Please find me. I am ready. I am not scared anymore. I want to know what its like, to jump with you, and see what crazy place it will take us." You probably can’t do this in person, so I suggest if you can’t, writer her a note, saying all this I type below, in note form, and slip it to her where she finds it when you aren’t around.

Go up to her out of the blue one day (or start your note out this way) and say “FUCK YOU!”. No, “FUCK YOU!”. And she will be like, what, what’s wrong, what did I do, what’s the matter? Of course she will, she’s your best friend. And then you tell her exactly how you feel. You say “HER_NAME, I really like you a lot, we have a blast ripping on each other, its great fun. But you hurt me. Haven’t you noticed that ever since you told me you wouldn’t have sex with me, I’ve been talking to you less? Well I have. You wounded me deeply. Somehow I now feel like I’m not worthy or something, like I’m not good enough for you, and it hurts like hell, because of all our joking, I actually cared about you. A lot. But you scare me now.”

“And another thing… and I’m not afraid to say it, in fact I’m kinda proud… I haven’t ever had sex yet. I mean, I couldn’t. Would would I do it with. I mean, that’s something special, you only do with someone who is special to you. The only one I would ever even think of doing something like that with would be you. But my god, if we did that, it would be so electric, I’d be afraid it’d set my toes on fire. My heart my explode. I think about that some times, just kissing you on the couch in the dark, where we wouldn’t be afraid, and I’m like oh wow that would be heaven. Just kissing. And then joking about it. And kissing some more.”

“If you have sex with someone else, it will tear my heart out. Every time I heard it, or saw his face, or you talked about it, my heart would bleed red. I can’t be around you if you were to talk about someone else, I would die inside. And so I must distance myself so I never have to see. I’m strong, but you’re like magic to me, like kryptonite. Are you brave enough for the both of us now, to find me, to love me, to just grab me, look me in the eye, and kiss the hell out of me? I promise I’ll kiss back. You have my permission. This may be your last chance ever. For my heart can not take it anymore.”

“If you can’t, I want you to know, I will never forget you. Ever. You were the best. But please do. Please find me. I am ready. I am not scared anymore. I want to know what its like, to jump with you, and see what crazy place it will take us.”

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