Keeping a Conversation Going
***QUESTION***
“Thanks dave for the awesome tips! But I have one important question on my mind I need to ask you. When I approach a girl that I find attractive. What are some things I can say to make a bit of a long conversation between me and that girl?
Well, I hope you can answer this one, because sometimes it leaves me with wonders and stuttors of what to say next.
sincerely,
T.”
>MY COMMENTS:
WHY IN THE WORLD would you want to “…make a bit of a long conversation…”?!
Long conversations are for girly-men who want a woman to see them as a friend-only. Conversation isn’t the answer when you first meet a woman.
You want her DIGITS! The info!
Use the 3-Minute email technique, get her email and number, and email her later.
How do I know that this is the right answer for you?
Simple. If you had the skills required to engage in a long conversation with a woman you’ve just met… in a public place… and have her leave feeling attracted to you, then you never would have asked this question in the first place.
Once you’ve learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION, then go try things like “…long conversation with women you’ve just met…”
***QUESTION***
“Hey David,
…what do I say when a woman I haven’t talked to in a while (whom I’m interested in) asks about my love life? I want her to know I’m single, but desired by others. Some cocky/funny ideas would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
J.”
>MY COMMENTS:
I’m going to let you in on a little secret:
If a woman knows you’re dating other women, she’ll be FAR more likely to be interested in you.
Yep.
So don’t downplay it.
Remember, we humans (and especially women who have competition) LOVE a good challenge. Even though we whine about it, kick and scream, and resist, there’s nothing that will get a person’s attention like a challenge that they’re willing to face.
You’re on the right track looking for a way to bring the cocky and funny mindset to the table.
How about these:
Her: “So, tell me about your love life.”
You: “Have you ever heard of James Bond? You get the idea.”
OR…
Her: “So, are you seeing anyone special?”
You: “What do you mean by “special?” No, I wouldn’t call any of them “special”… unless you’re talking about not being the sharpest tool in the shed… in that case, yes, I’m seeing a couple of ‘special’ women.”
Get the idea?
Your answers are saying “I’m confident enough to make jokes about it” while still implying that you’re going out with several women.
Your Friend,
David DeAngelo