What to Do if a Woman Pouts at Your Teasing


“Hey Dave,

Unsolicited, I think you’re book is AMAZING. NICE WORK! Breaking rapport with humor is a charm! I’m having a blast with it.

Ex: Attractive older woman at the cash register tells me to move over to the next register, then she tells another clerk to take care of the next customer, I say, “You just order EVERYBODY around…DON’T you?” She goes, “I’m too old to get married, but I LIKE you! You’re REAL!

So of course, I responded, “Well, I just do what I’m told, but I’m not so sure about you…too BOSSY.

Women love this stuff!

Question: I’ve noticed in three different occasions where chicks have respond to my actions by pouting. I know that you’ve had some great recommendations, i.e., saying, “You’re cute when you pout.“, etc. and it works, but, in your opinion, have you found that the pouters have a lot of personal baggage? Or is that normal female behavior?? …or BOTH. The last thing I want to do is get too involved with a neurotic.

Please share your experience and observation.

Thanks, DJ Chicago”

My Comments:

Well, if you date enough women, you’ll get just about every possible response in the world.

Sure, once in awhile a woman will pout if you give her a hard time and tease her.

It’s a judgement call, but if you’re dealing with a fragile personality, just say “Oh, lighten up.”

Most of the time, just do what you’re doing… “You’re cute when you’re mad” is great. Thanks for your story, it’s great.


“Dave, its working to good for me!!!….lol! You truly know ur stuff. I’ve had so many girls pursue me in the last couple of months. I’ve narrowed down my girls down to 2 and they both cant get enough of me, but there’s one I really like out of the 2.

I’ve recently decided to break it off with one of them and stick with the one I really like, but there’s a problem. With the one that I really like, no one really has the upper hand in the relationship. I don’t know what I have to do to gain this powerful control. How can i make this girl wait on my every word!??!?! Any help would be much appreciated. Once again, you are the man Dave. Thanks again.


My Comments:

Ahhhhh… interesting.

The one you like is the one who won’t allow herself to be controlled. An attractive woman with a sharp mind and a quick wit. A challenge.

Probably not a coincidence, my friend.

Of course, this is the same thing a woman is looking for in a man… someone who is interesting, challenging, unpredictable…

If I were you, I’d thank my lucky stars that:

1) You found a woman that’s this great.

2) You learned how to be and stay attractive to her.

You sound like a guy who’s interested in having a great relationship, but I’m not a relationship counselor.

I get guys into trouble like yours, not help them deal with it! You poor, poor dear.

…and if you’re reading this right now, and you’ve made the decision that it’s time to get this part of your life called “WOMEN AND DATING” handled, then I’d recommend that you download a copy of my online eBook “Double Your Dating.”

Inside I’ll teach you how women think, what attracts them, plus dozens of techniques from how to get women’s email addresses and numbers to how to meet women online. Just go to:

Double Your Dating

…now and get it. It’s taken me years to figure all of this stuff out. And you can learn it in a few hours of reading. Check it out.

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.