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The Secrets Jerks Use To Attract Women

Out of all of the attractive women you know…how many of them have dated a “jerk”?

For me, the answer is all of them.

Many women SAY they want a “nice” guy…but if you ask her how long she dated the last nice guy she met, she’ll usually say “3 or 4┬ádates…”

But ask how her how long she dated the last “jerk”, and she’ll often say years… or… “I’m still dating him now!”

Something about these guys leads women to do crazy things. I’ve seen women leave family, friends and careers behind to follow a “jerk” across the country… shutting out everyone who tells her to move on… even her closest friends.

It’s no secret – Jerks are like junk food to women… with “nice” guys being more like health food…

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How To Use Humor To Attract Women

One of the things that I discuss a lot is the idea of why women feel ATTRACTION for some men while NOT feeling it for others (even though the men that women feel ATTRACTION for might not be good choices for them because they’re abusive, etc.)

If you recall, one of the concepts that I teach goes something like this:

* ATTRACTION isn’t something that is logically chosen.

* ATTRACTION is basically an EMOTIONAL RESPONSE to certain cues and behaviors.

One of the things I’ve isolated that seems to cause women to feel this magical ATTRACTION to men is the idea that I call being “Cocky & Funny.”

This is simply using an arrogant style of humor when you’re dealing with attractive women that leads to them feeling the emotion of ATTRACTION for you.

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What Women Look For In A Man

I thought it would be interesting to give you a different point of view this time.

And I thought it might be helpful to take you “behind the scenes”, and show you what it’s like for a woman when she’s “looking” for a man.

OK, to start with, I have something important to tell you:


I know, profound.

You can write me later and tell me how this new revelation has changed your life.

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Why Women Aren't Attracted To Nice Guys


If you are a “nice guy” who never seems to be able to attract HOT women, or you have attractive female friends who always seem to say, “He’s really wonderful, but I just like him as a FRIEND”, then this could possibly be the single most important thing you ever read in your entire life.

And I’m not kidding… not even a little.

If I had to sum up the biggest mistake that I see men making with women (and the big mistake that I’ve made myself too many times to count), it’s being a WUSSY.

Being a WUSS comes in two main flavors:

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How To Not Be Seen As An Average Man

This week I want to talk about an obvious point that’s taken me a few years to really notice.

The idea is simple: We humans don’t want what everyone else has… we want what everyone else has AND MORE. In the context of women and dating, it goes like this:


Remember, ATTRACTION doesn’t make logical sense… Women don’t say, “Oh, he’s a kind, honest, loyal type of guy from a good family… AND THAT REALLY TURNS ME ON.”

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