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Body Language That Turns Women Off

***SUCCESS STORY***

If there are people out there who still don’t believe in the cocky & funny, QUIT DOUBTIN’ IT AND START WORKIN’ IT!

The other night I was at a burger joint near my office. It’s one of those grungy independent places that’s popular with the locals, and out of towners make a point to visit if they’re here for something else. The line had snaked around, and a group of three cuties was standing in front of my table. They were talking about what they’d heard, and one of them said she was looking forward to their fries.

Since I had a bunch of fries in front of me, I made eye contact and gave my fries a Vanna White flourish with my hands. She said, “Wow those look good. Can I?”

I offered her one of my fries. She dipped it in my cup of ketchup, and right as she popped it in her mouth, I looked her in the eye and said “By the way, I double-dip.” In the space of two seconds, her expressions ranged from shock at my brashness, to wondering whether she should be grossed out, to laughing.

I knew I could have gotten her e-mail/number…and the thing is, I didn’t even want to, because I’ve been seeing a solid eight. Sure, there are hotter, but until recently I would have thought she was entirely out of my league. And I ALWAYS bust her balls. She’s always coming up to me, saying “Gimme kiss”. I think for a second and say, “Umm… no, but thanks!” And then she’s enthusiastically kissing me. Or more.

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How To Handle Competition From Other Men

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I am recently divorced and found myself having a hard time making connections with women after being in a 9-year relationship.   Before I met my ex-wife I considered myself as a “player” and had little trouble finding girls to go out with. After being out of the scene for so long, I had lots of trouble trying to get back in to the swing of things.   Your ebook and emails have instantly put me back in the game and I am now getting dates with very attractive women!   Its been amazing!! Thank You!

Now for the question. All these attractive women have brought something into my dates that I am not used to, Men (Cock Blockers)!   Currently, I am dating this “bomb-shell” occasionally and when we go out on a date, men will hit on her as soon as they get a chance.   If I turn my back for second, some guy will try to make eye contact or say something to her.   I don’t blame the guys because she is very hot, but how do I deal with this in a way that shows I am 100% confident?   Typically, I just laugh and continue to have a good time by ignoring the lame ass attempts to pick up on my date, but there has to be a way that I can turn this around to make me look more confident in her eyes.

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Meeting Women With Personal Ads

***QUESTION***

David DeAngelo:

On your audio series, you talk about getting past the fluff and “talk to that other part of the woman” How do you do that? I answer ads on the personals, and I keep thinking that my dialogue with these women is all wrong.

I know you gotta be C&F, but sometimes there’s not much to go on from an online profile. Here’s an example from a girl that lives in my neighborhood:

“I’d like to eventually settle down with someone that I can look to as a best friend and that I can laugh with. I enjoy traveling, working out, yoga, music, and dining out in NYC. I am playful and fun and have a lot to offer the right man. I believe that the best relationships are based on friendship. I am genuine, kind and compassionate and I am looking for the same in a man.

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3 Tips For Being Cocky & Funny With Women

***QUESTION***

Mr. David DeAngelo,

Your E-book has made my dating life a complete Cinderella story. The reality that I live in now would just be unimaginable to myself in the mind set I held over a year ago.   In high school, I was your typical acne scarred, pasty, out of shape, dungeons and dragons-type shy loser. When I started college, however, I became so determined and focused on doing WHATEVER it takes to completely turn my life around, that things started to change faster than I could imagine.

I started working out, eating right, and I started listening to Anthony Robbins and Brian Tracy audio tapes to sort of build a base on which I could set my goals in life and reprogram all the garbage and limiting beliefs in my head. Invariably, I came upon my dating life and decided to do whatever it make myself as attractive as possible. at 19, I had never previously kissed a girl or even had the guts to ask one out..   was always the shy guy. But I was determined to be the biggest ladies man on campus, and with your help I’ve made this happen.

Of all the self-improvement type stuff I have invested in, I must say that your e-book and monthly series was definitely the best and most rewarding investment I have ever made. And coming from my position, this is a huge compliment.   Some people don’t know what they are missing out on by not investing in your program.

Everything in life all comes down to a decision. If you think that you deserve great women, great relationships, and a better quality of life overall, then you owe it to yourself to try out David’s E-book, monthly series, and advanced series. If it doesn’t work after-all, he is giving you the chance to send it back! Hrmm..   maybe I should stop there.. i don’t want my competition to become too fierce.

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Your Irrational Fear Of Approaching Women

I got an interesting email from a guy who watched my “Approaching Women” DVD program, and I thought I’d take a minute to comment on some of the things he said…

Here’s a part of his email. Read this:

“Hey Dave,

This program you made has been the single most valuable program for me. This whole thing with approaching women has basically been subtly controlling my life for the last 7 years. It’s the one thing that makes no sense to a rational mind.   You did a great job explaining why us guys feel like we’re risking DEATH when we think of approaching.   AWSOME!   The other part that how we can even be really successful at approaching women but then not do it for a while and try doing it again and still feel like we haven’t even done it successfully LOL.

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